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š® Introducing my Future of Networking forecast
The 1st of 10 trends shaping how weāll build and grow professional relationships in an AI world.

Ready for something BIG?š„
Over the past two decades, Iāve built a respected reputation in relationship-building, community architecture, and strategic introductions for executives, innovators, and platforms.
Now, as AI, automation, and remote work change how we build relationships, Iām ready to lead a new conversationānot just about networking, but about what comes next. š®
Iāve combined my reflections on the past with my expertise on techās frontier and honed in on 10 core beliefs for whatās ahead: fundamental shifts in technology, tools, behavior, and cultureāalong with evolving expectations of trust and connectionāthat will shape how we build relationships, create community, and grow professionally in the future.
Introducing my Future of Networking forecast š
My goal with this series is to share what Iām seeing behind the scenes as I advise executives, AI companies, and media leadersāand translate those insights into practical guidance so you can stay ahead and get ahead.
Iāll bring you tools, strategies, and fresh ideas to help you navigate whatās changing and build your unique competitive edge.
All I ask in return: stay in the conversation. Tell me what you're seeing, what you're curious about, and where you'd like me to go deeper.
My mission has always been to bring people together to exchange ideas, insights, and opportunities. šÆ That hasnāt changed.
What has changed is how quickly AI is reshaping human connection š¤š¤, and thatās exactly why Iām inviting you to explore this next chapter with me.
I have so much more to say than can fit in a single newsletter, so be sure to follow me on LinkedIn as I continue the conversation there.
In the meantime, letās dive into the first of my Ten Trends for the Future of Networking.
š£ Trend #1 is AI-Enhanced Networking.
Everything in my career, from leading companies to exit, to advising top executives, has reinforced a simple truth:
āļø The biggest leaps in life and business come from being connected to the right people.
I bet some of the biggest opportunities of your career have come from someone you know, and some of the most game-changing leaps forward in your business resulted from someone on your team knowing the right person at the right company.
In the future, business will still get done via humans unlocking opportunities for other humans.
The way we get to those opportunities and create those door-unlocking relationships, on the other hand? That is going to drastically change because of AI.
In fact, it already is. ā
For those who think the idea is far-fetched, consider this: our technologies may be new, but weāve long used technology to navigate relationship building and networking. We put business cards into our Rolodexes, then saved contacts straight into our mobile phones, then connected to each other via social networks, and now some of us use a personal CRM tool.
The next evolution of networking technology will be AI agents working on our behalf, networking without us, and only pinging us š when they find a āmatch.ā
Relationship-building will be supercharged by systems that not only remind us to check in on our contacts, but will provide us with detailed notes for contextābecause theyāll have transcripts from past calls and in-person interactions. (If you donāt believe me, look into the Limitless Pendant.) Those special touches that strengthen a relationshipāfrom remembering your kidsā names to your coffee orderāwill become the standard. With technology raising the relationship-building bar, not remembering enough of the small details will eventually be seen as a red flag. š©
But, AI-accelerated networking has its limits. āøļø
We donāt want to fully automate networking, because fully automated networking will fail.
Networking works because of the human connection: two humans meet, form a relationship, receive value from each other, like each other, and help each other by opening a door and providing an opportunity they couldnāt have otherwise accessed. š¤ Thatās the ultimate goal of networking, whether people realize it or not.
You canāt fully automate that away because each person is different in their personality and approach. We donāt want two AI agents giving each other freebies based on an algorithm. If we do, thatās called tasks and processesāand itās not a replacement for a human connection that can lead to something unexpected and highly beneficial. āØ
And all of that is without mentioning the satisfaction humans experience from getting to know another person, spending time with them, and then being able to help them, or that feeling of gratitude when someone else does something nice for us. š¤
If we automate too far, we turn something sacredāhuman trustāinto a transactional algorithm. š āāļø
āļø I believe the leaders who strike the balance between human and AI-enhanced networking will own the future: the ones who blend AI optimization with emotional intelligenceānot replace one with the other.
Aspiring to be one of those leaders in the future? Here are my recommendations for preparing in the present:
ā Take action.
If you saw someone with a Rolodex or fax machine today, youād think they were stuck in the past. The same goes for relying only on your memory. Failing to use AI tools will soon be seen as neglectful.
š§ Adopt the right mindset.
Itās okay to have a system for networking. We live in a tech-powered eraāthereās a tool for everything. Itās also okay to be goal-oriented in your relationships, as long as youāre not transactional and genuinely care about providing value to people.
šļø Hire a Connection Architect to create a system for you to use, or hire a full-service Concierge Connector (yes, like me) to do the networking for you.
Not everyone has time to build and manage their relationship strategyābut everyone benefits from having one.
A Connection Architect helps you design a repeatable, trust-based system for how you meet, engage, and build with the right peopleāpowered by AI tools, but grounded in human credibility.
If youāre too busy or prefer to stay focused on your core work, a Concierge Connector becomes your behind-the-scenes asset: strategically making warm introductions, hosting private gatherings on your behalf, and elevating your presence in the right rooms.
Both roles are designed to help you stay visible, relevant, and well-connected in a world where relationships are your most valuable asset.
āļø Remember: AI canāt manufacture belonging or earn you trust (nor genuine human connection). Only you can.
AI tools can recommend who you should meet, surface shared interests, and even help you stay top of mind. Theyāre powerful acceleratorsābut creating true connection is still a human responsibility. The full value is achieved after the match: when someone feels seen, valued, and understood. That canāt be outsourced.
You have to be intentional about providing a unique value, having a clear purpose, bringing people together, and designing experiences that foster trust to create the sense of belonging that no algorithm can replicate. Thatās where opportunity turns into outcomesāand where you make the difference. š«µ
Thatās it for the first edition of this new series! š© Hit reply and let me know what resonated, or what you'd like to see more of.
P.S. Remember when I said up top that Iād be continuing the conversation on LinkedIn? The truth isā¦I started teasing these trends already - did you catch it? š
For those curious to know whatās ahead in my Future of Networking forecast, these posts share a preview:
Attending the TIME100 Summit reminded me that weāre in a new era of influence, where power will increasingly be wielded by curators, rather than creators
āIRLā is becoming a premium, niche experience: one that sends a clear signal about what communities matter to you.
With curiosity and gratitude,
Nicole
āBut wait, thereās more!ā š
Challenge Existing Thinking
āMore Contactsā ā āMore Opportunityā
Challenge the idea that volume is what drives value in networking. Show how context, trust, and intention are becoming the new currency.
Stop Treating AI as Just a Productivity Tool
Many execs see AI as an automation hack first and foremost. Challenge this. Frame it instead as a relationship amplifier that can quantum leap careers and companies forward.
Why Human Connection Canāt Be Fully Automated (and Why Thatās Good for Business)
Push back on the Silicon Valley instinct to automate everything. Argue that humanness can still be the better choice at times when used to engage withā¦you guessed itā¦other humans.
The Myth of āNaturalā Networking
All personalities can networkājust in different ways and at varying comfort levels. Advocate for technology that doesnāt disproportionately benefit those with existing visibility or traditional personality traits often seen as more āpersonable.ā Everyone deserves an AI networking tool that can serve their unique self.
If Youāre Still Waiting for Serendipity, Youāre Already Behind
Donāt get stuck relying on luck or random encounters. Know that top leaders are working with agencies like mine to design strategic engagements that attract the right people directly to them.
What Iāve loved recently
š Co-Intelligence by Ethan Mollick: A foundational book about AI and the various roles it can ā and will ā play in our lives. A great read for those new to AI, or those wanting to go deeper into whatās ahead as humans and AI intertwine.
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